Does She Like Being Single ?

Original from/belong to : Page FB "If you miss me"

Does she like being single? Yes.
Does she wish she were in a relationship? Absolutely.

But here’s the thing.....she’s not going to settle just to say she has someone.
Because she’s finally learned the difference between loneliness and peace.

She enjoys her quiet moments, her routines, her freedom.
She loves waking up without drama, without questioning someone’s intentions, without chasing validation from a man who doesn’t even know what he wants.

She’s not bitter. She’s not cold. She’s not “too independent.”
She simply knows that being in a relationship isn’t an achievement if it costs her dignity, her peace, or her sanity.

She’s waiting for a man whose presence feels better than her solitude.
A man whose energy feels like safety, not survival.
A man who makes her feel seen, heard, and valued....not just tolerated.

Someone who respects her mind, protects her heart, and makes her feel like home, not a temporary stop.

Until she finds him, she’s not rushing. She’s not lowering her standards. She’s not pretending to be less than she is just to fit inside a relationship box.

She’s content being alone because she’s realized she’s already complete.

And if love comes along, it has to add to her life....not disrupt it.
It has to be patient, kind, and intentional.
It has to feel like partnership, not possession.

So yes, she wants love. Yes, she wants companionship.
But she wants the right kind of love.
The kind that doesn’t ask her to shrink.
The kind that honors her softness, her strength, her standards.

And until that love arrives?
She’s choosing herself.
Every single day.